I’ve merely discovered


from my boyfriend’s on-line search history he has featured upwards


males wearing


intimate apparel


. Performs this signify he’s keen on this?


Or that he’s not right? Im actually freaked-out and baffled.

On the other hand: be happy your with a sexually fascinated individual who can be perfectly creative and experimental. Lots of men enjoy dressing in female attire. It doesn’t mean these include homosexual – cross-dressers can be gay, right or bisexual. For instance, some heterosexual guys only like the feel of feminine garments – comfortable, silky etc – and also have sexual sensations while sporting it. Your boyfriend could also happen investigating this from a passing interest.

If you find out he is drawn to it – and/or features a very good fetishistic attachment to it – don’t feel threatened. It is OK – it’s simply one of the many human being variants of eroticism. People who always cross-dress typically hide this interest because they worry judgment from other people. Apparently you’re feeling that you cannot discuss this with him until a chance arises that will maybe not display you were searching through their internet history. I recommend that should you had been, state, to find visual cross-dressing content with each other eventually, that could be an ideal time to discuss the rehearse with him, in a totally nonjudgmental fashion. Flake Out. And would end snooping!

Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist which specialises for sexual conditions.